独立

刚刚从朋友得知她恋爱了.从她笑容可以发觉到她很幸福.一直以来很凶的她,慢慢的变成小女人了.说话的语气也变得很温柔.在这祝福他们白头偕老.替他们感到开心,终于找到了自己心爱的人,真的不容易也.此时,有点被他们影响到.有点想要谈恋爱的感觉,但那是不可能的..

问问自己想找的对象会是怎样的.但好像没那种的权利来选择.一切由上天安排吧. 随缘. 慢慢习惯一个人的生活了.如果突然间,有人加入我的世界里,我真的还需要很长的时间来适应. 所以一直以来没有考虑这样的问题.只想要做好自己的本分.一切都已过去了,应该往前看才行. 虽然我选择的路并不容易走,但我并不会怪任何人,因为这是我的抉择.我必须站好,不管发生什么事,我还能自己应付.

前天看到一折新闻,有关一个妇女一直以来有个美满的家庭.由老公赚钱,自己是个贤妻良母把家照顾的很好.但很不幸的,丈夫因为重病而伤亡.事情发生之后,妇女没有勇气来面对这个家.就连亲戚朋友都不想见,开始自暴自弃.家里慢慢面对财务状况,因为由史以来都是丈夫负责赚钱.人往往当事情的发生,才发现自己的重要性.没有了依靠,再加上家庭财务的压力.真的让人觉得生不如死.

在我中学的时候,我常常觉得结婚过后的女人应该是个小女人.帮忙照顾家,照顾孩子.那才是真正的贤妻良母.但却忘了女人应该学会独立.我们不能预算我们将来会面对怎样的问题.如果, 你的另一比你先走,那你和孩子该怎么办?现在我很确定的告诉我自己,婚后的我还是一样的会为事业而忙.并不会给自己任何休息的理由.现在的我因该要学会独立,这是我一直我想要出去的原因.....

First time

my first time to be so happy. This morning my customer told me that he want to confirm their shirt size. haha.. even though their order is jz like a small fish but billion of happy come accross to my heart. Lastly, i did it!! This customer is quite special. Not sure is fate to meet him or not. As usual , everyday i will went to factory one by one. One times, i was wrong enter to this factory area, and i saw a guy was sterring me. Suppose i should ask him where to turn back to the main road. Before i said anything, he ask me who i want to find. I jz simply said that i want to meet ur purchaser. Then,
he told me " ah moi u park sini ,then jalan pergi sana office jumpa kenneth.".
i replied " o.. terima kasih. jumpa siapa tadi?"
guy : "kenneth."
me: " o.. miss kenneth a? thank you har"
guy: " you are welcome. by the way kenneth is a guy lar."
me: " wahahha..... sorry a. i ingat perempuan"
then, he help me to call up this guy.and finally i meet him.
coincident, he are looking for a shirt supplier. he through i was intro by somebody else.Actually i was jz simply walk in ur place, simply promote. haha....
This manufacture jz operate for two month. So is quite new factory.Hope got chance to have long term relationship with this factory. yuhoo!!
Even is not a big case, but from here i learn something new. At the same times, motivate me to go through in this line.....